Why don't white guys approach me?

i am black/white with auburn hair... 5'5"... pear shape... size 8... mocha skin... super curly hair... big lips... almond eyes... got a really artsy style... i think i'm pretty but only black guys and hispanic guys try to talk to me... unless it's those ghetto type white guys which i'm not into... cud it have something to do with me living in mississippi... not that i just really wanna white guy but i'd like to have my options more open... what can i do to be more approachable to guys of all races?

Why don't white guys approach me?

well, i have prettymuch answered this ? a couple times and got best answers so lets try again. you sound really hot from the description. just my type. and im not a "ghetto white guy," although i do listen to rap. i didn't just start like most white people (fad), i always have, just as i always have and still listen to rock r%26amp;b, classical, and everything else (except country and techno) i am pretty smart and most of the time i am more interested in what is between your ears than your thighs. im in GA and i am just going to copy and paste the answer to the old ? (although i graduated now):

OK. i am a white man and a senior in high school and i think i can clear this up for you. i have liked this girl for a while now (since 9th grade) and it just so happens that she is black. her name is staci. we used to talk and flirt and everything, but we had an argument and fell out of contact for about a year. she now (2 years later) drops hints (eye contact, standing near me, sighing audiably, saying "hi") that she wants to talk again. it is just that i am scared to death to talk to her. one reason is because she is black. this is why: 1. black women are very unlikely to be attracted to white men. i have NEVER approached a black woman that didnt talk to me first. it just would make me very nervous and scared of rejection. 2. i feel like i cant live up to the "standard" she may be used too. most black men i know are more muscular than white men. don't get me wrong, i play football and lift weights, and am not a scrawny dude but i had to work extremly hard in the weight room(1st in, last to leave) for what i have, and that is still just mediocre compared to some of my black teammates who seamed to just naturally be strong. most of the black men i know are 5'11''-6'4'' and i am only 5'7''. that is OK with white women (most white women i know are around 5'2''). staci happens to be 5'2'' also, but all her boyfriends that i know were like 6'2''. 3. i have heard black women say that they would never date a white man because he wouldnt treat her the same as a black man. i really have no clue what this means, but i think it has to do with that most white people are steriotyped as all work-minded and no fun. i am fun, once you get to know me (i will be shy at first, but once i open up you will be laughing a lot). well, to sum up, yes, most white men would date black women if they had the values that they are attracted too. i think that most dont try (including me) because thay are insecure both mentally, and physically, and are almost 100% sure of rejection b/c of the fact that they are white and therefore don't "measure up."

well, was that enough? also it is even harder in my area becase i am the minority even though i am white. my HS was about 92% black. the only white person i know that went to my school was my sister! i think it would be easier in an environment like the north where minds may be more open (just a theory), or in an area that is about half and half or white majority

Why don't white guys approach me?

I really don't think you can do anything. Everyone has their personal taste and definition of beauty. Also, a lot of people are only really attracted to their own race. Its not a matter of them being racist, its just what they are used to and what they find attractive.

Why don't white guys approach me?

Maybe white guys are shyer who knows. You sound very pretty to me so I dont have a clue why they dont approach you. It seems like you are doing a good job attracting some men already. Like i said give it time. You sound exotically beautiful. Mz America is very accurate alot of white guys are afraid to approach. They may feel totally intimidated by you. Be yourself and smile when they are around.

Why don't white guys approach me?

Why dont you approach them instead?

Why don't white guys approach me?

beauty comes from within

Why don't white guys approach me?

Alot of them arent confident enough but they want to. I know this for a fact. Im dating an average white guy. AND by seeing the comments on here, we arent exactly at the top of the list due to racist people making ignorant comments about us and stereotyping. My boyfriend admitted that he was afraid to date me at first because of all the ignorant things he's heard. But from the first date,he just sees me as a beautiful woman that every other man stares down and that he's lucky to have. We're engaged now.

Why don't white guys approach me?

You sound alot like me. I am mixed race as well and have pretty much all of those same attributes. I also live in Tennessee (Memphis) so I kind of get what you mean about living in Mississippi. Anyway, I do think that there are cultural differences in terms of who guys find attractive. I find that black men definitely look at me and approach me more than white men. I have dated men of all races, but when I think about it, I usually have to approach white guys myself rather than them approaching me. It takes alot of guts, but you can do it!

Why don't white guys approach me?

First of all, I don't think you're Black at all.

Some experiment with the forum is what you're up to.

So obvious.

Why don't white guys approach me?

you sound like a very beautiful girl. My opinion would be to go out with who is attracted to you. You will most likely have the best chemistry with who finds you the sexist, by the way Hispanic and black guys are the hottest guys!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Why don't white guys approach me?

Wow, You sound very racist. If you have problems getting white guys it's probably because you want them so much. I prefer black men but I get approached by many men of different races white/black/Hispanic/Asian/whatever. Usually they are very educated and have great manners. You probably get the wrong kind of guys (personality wise) because you throw off bad vibes.

Instead of looking for a guy by his race, why not trying to see him for the kind of person he is inside. :)

Why don't white guys approach me?

Ok, I am a white southern guy so I think I can give a qualified answer.

90% of rednecks are atleast a little touch racist, it is just been instilled in us by our fathers and it is nothing we have 100%control of. Sounds like I copout even to me and I am the one that said it.

That said, I am pretty much over it and personaly I think I am almost to the point that I dont see color anymore. I work in an industry where if you cant work with someone of any color and nationality then you are not going to make it. And working along side all my black/hispanic/ and every other race I can think of I can see somethign very clearly. Color does not mater for anything in this world. Color does not decide if you are a good person, or a bad person. a hard worker or a lazy person, a smart person or a dump person. All you are is a human being the same as everyone else, it is up to you to make yourself something past that.

Only bigots can make a clear decision about someone just based on their aperance, wether it is because you are a diferant color, fat, thin, smart, slow, christian, pagan. you name it someone outthere is a big enough hypocrit that they think they can judge you based on one factor in your life that you have no control of what so ever. So dont lay to much stock in the opinions of others.

So dont let the fact that some white guys ignore you bother you, they are probably just self consious about what their friends may say if there where to date someoen whose skin is darker than vanilla icecream and are unwilling to live their own lives due to their fears.

Lastly, dont go changing yourself to try and atract someone who does not want you for who you are. They will not be in love with "you" only the image you have tried to project.

Why don't white guys approach me?

really.

I'm also dark, and white men hit on me all the time.

interesting question